It’s not a long-term fix, but it can offer much-needed relief when emotions become overwhelming.
The essential part is finding what works for you, and that often means combining activities that engage your mind, body, and senses.
I listed some science-backed and practical ways to distract yourself when you’re depressed:
Exercise increases serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins, all of which are lower in people with depression.
Even small movements can help:
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- Go for a short walk (preferably outside, since nature helps with mood regulation).
- Do some light stretching or yoga.
- Dance to a song you like, just one song to start.
- You can also try martial arts drills or shadowboxing if that’s more your vibe.
Movement shifts your concentration to your body instead of ruminating thoughts.
Do something that demands your attention and makes it hard for your brain to wander:
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- Play a puzzle game (like Sudoku, crosswords, or mobile games with strategy).
- Watch a thriller or fast-paced TV show that pulls you in.
- Try a new hobby or learn a small skill, like drawing or origami.
- Read a book that immerses you.
Studies show that cognitive distraction reduces rumination.
Engaging your senses can ground you:
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- Draw, paint, color (even adult coloring books can help).
- Do DIY or craft projects, such as sewing, knitting, or model kits.
- Bake or cook something simple and focus on the smells, textures, and steps.
- Clean or organize one tiny space, like your desk or one drawer.
- Listen to stimulating audio
Audio can hijack your brain in a good way:
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- Listen to a podcast (funny or informative, whatever keeps your focus).
- Try upbeat or energetic music (not always sad songs!)
- Try guided meditations or sound baths.
- Use binaural beats or white noise apps.
Even choosing can feel too much when you’re feeling down. That’s why it makes sense to prepare a list or box of:
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- Activities that have helped before.
- Sensory items (stress balls, scented lotion, smooth stones).
- Links to favorite videos, games, or songs.
- Notes from loved ones or things that support you emotionally.
Think of it as a first-aid kit for your brain.
These are some mental “games” you can play with yourself:
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- Count backward starting from 100 by 7s.
- Describe your environment in detail using all five senses.
- Recite a song or poem from memory.
- Imagine your ideal vacation step by step.
These tricks aid in interrupting the cycle of negative self-talk and overthinking, commonly seen in mood disorders.
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- Helping others can give purpose and shift focus outward.
- Respond to questions on forums or support groups.
- Volunteer virtually for causes you care about, such as translating, mentoring, or Crisis Text Line.
- Do a small act of kindness (compliment someone, write a thank-you email).
This uses problem-solving and hands-on distraction:
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- Fix an old device.
- Reorganize files on your computer.
- Declutter digital folders or your photo gallery.
- Refurbish a piece of furniture or clothing.
This creates a small, achievable goal while giving you a degree of accomplishment.
Activating your sensory system can jolt your brain out of emotional overload:
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- Hold ice cubes in your hand or run cold water over your wrists.
- Take a hot shower or contrast shower (hot-cold-hot).
- Use textured objects like fidget cubes, velvet, or kinetic sand.
- Try sour or spicy snacks, since strong tastes wake up the brain.
These stimulate the vagus nerve and parasympathetic system, which can calm the fight-or-flight response.
Tap into parts of yourself that depression tends to smother:
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- Curate a Pinterest board or vision board of who you want to become.
- Create a playlist that reflects a version of you that feels alive.
- Write a fictional version of yourself as if you were a character in a story.
This helps counter the self-identity erosion that often comes with chronic depression.
- Let randomness choose for you
When your motivation is drained, decision-making feels like climbing a mountain. Consider letting randomness take over:
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- Use a “decision wheel” or random activity generator online.
- Write down distractions on slips of paper and pick one from a jar.
- Set a timer and do whatever you were doing when it rings, just to break the inaction.
Decreasing decision fatigue can get you started without overthinking from the get-go.
Instead of long-term distractions, try short, controlled escapes:
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- Try VR apps or 360° YouTube videos (nature walks, space, cities).
- Use ambient video backgrounds (fireplace, cafés, rain) as a soothing “scene”.
- Play a game like “Where in the World” (geo-guessing or virtual travel).
This tricks your brain into a feeling of novelty, which it craves but can’t seek when you’re low.
Even if you’re not into gaming, adopting a role can help you externalize your feelings:
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- Play RPGs (video or tabletop) where you make choices as a character.
- Try dressing in a different “persona” for the day, such as experimental fashion or retro styles.
- Pretend you’re someone with a mission, like a spy organizing their gear (even if that gear is your room).
This can give temporary relief from self-judgment and the internal critic.
Sometimes, a change in scenery can interrupt depressive loops.
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- Take a new route while walking or driving with no destination, just exploration.
- Visit a part of your city you’ve never been to.
- Try “urban hiking” by mapping a random spot and going to check it out.
- Go geo-caching (modern-day treasure hunting with GPS).
Novelty aids in activating the brain’s reward system.
This is more therapeutic than it sounds. It moves you into a future-oriented mindset:
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- Choose a country and start planning a fake journey.
- Look up hotels, activities, and local foods.
- Watch vlogs or travel documentaries of the area.
Just fantasizing about a future typically increases dopamine and counters anhedonia (loss of pleasure).
This removes the pressure of performance and taps into curiosity:
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- Learn how constellations work.
- Study old maps or obscure historical events.
- Dive into niche topics like “how airplanes work” or the “history of tattoos”.
This is a form of intellectual play because it’s stimulating but low stakes.
Try taking something apart mentally or physically instead of creating it from scratch:
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- Watch videos of someone taking apart tech or machines.
- Deconstruct how your favorite movie scene was made.
- Analyze song lyrics line by line.
- Take apart an old gadget and try to reassemble it.
This satisfies the brain’s need for problem-solving that’s regularly dulled by depression.
It might sound weird, but it works:
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- Pretend David Attenborough or Morgan Freeman is narrating your actions.
- Try speaking your actions out loud (“Now we approach… the fridge”).
It may sound silly at first, but it creates psychological distance between you and your emotions, which is a known coping technique in cognitive behavioral therapy.
Instead of reacting as “you,” imagine yourself as:
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- A scientist observing your symptoms.
- A therapist helping a client (yourself).
- A character from a movie or book.
- Your “future self” is giving present-you advice.
This can help you switch from an emotional brain to an analytical brain, and it’s surprisingly grounding.
Create something for your future self:
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- Write a letter from the you of today, being honest and raw.
- Record a voice memo or video talking about how you feel.
- Create a “depression playlist” and note why each song suits you.
- Do something ridiculously pointless on purpose
This is an anti-perfectionism move:
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- Sort your books by color.
- Build something with LEGO.
- Stack coins by size or year.
- Alphabetize your spice rack.
- Count how many blue things are in your house.
Sometimes, doing something with zero emotional weight is just what your brain needs.
Conclusion
Distraction is not avoidance if you’re using it as a short-term coping strategy. It’s truly a useful buffer when you feel like you’re drowning.
However, pairing distraction with more intense work (like therapy, journaling, or behavioral activation) is what leads to lasting change.